Ok, we’re about to get a lot more personal right here, right now. For those of you unaware (ahm I’m assuming that’s the majority of you), I am recently single…again. In the last 8 years, I have had 4 boyfriends – my high school sweetheart lasting 4 years, and the rest only managing a couple of months before I realised that it just wasn’t quite working out.
Now, being single for me has never been a difficult thing. I’m an only child, and love my own space, time and company – but for those of you out there who struggle to accept being alone, I thought I would write a piece COMPLETELY left of field, and share what I have learn from my time as a single woman in her early 20s. These are completely my own ramblings that came to mind after a couple of wines, so you can agree or disagree with what I have to say, I really don’t mind. I do however, hope you may attain something from the next few paragraphs that may inspire or help you along your journey of life. So! Without further ado, here are the ‘5 Ultimate Single-Life Lessons’ that I've learnt from my time riding solo… Lesson 1: The need for attention is second nature. You need to find a hobby or something to occupy your time, otherwise boredom sets in, and the dating apps steal all your data. Start a new Instagram, read, become a wine connoisseur, take up dance lessons, go on bushwalks (ew…so not my thing BUT you go for it!). Whatever you do, find what you’re interested in and can throw yourself into! Lesson 2: Productivity goes through the roof! You don’t realise it until you’re alone, but another person in your life takes up SO MUCH OF YOUR TIME! I don’t necessarily mean that in a bad way, I just mean that when you are the only person that you need to think about, everything in life gets done with more efficiency. Groceries, cleaning, walking the dog, coffee dates with friends, you name it! Embrace this and use it to your advantage. Get yo shit done! Lesson 3: You get to eat what you want, when you want, with or without who you want! I know you may laugh at this one, but seriously! Think about it! No more conflicts around where to eat! Like wwwhhhaaaattt?! (It’s safe to say the Thai restaurant down the road makes a lot of money from my single ass). Lesson 4: You answer to you, and ONLY you now. Welcome this into your life, and stand by your decisions. The good, the bad, the fab and the f-ugly. Lesson 5: For me personally, fitness is a part of my life no matter where I am at – however, for many new singles, the gym can be a major outlet and somewhere to take your mind off that old someone, and become a new you. If this is the case, find a gym with a good community, and people who want to see you succeed and grow. Either way, your single days are often some of your fittest – enjoy it! If you ask me, being single isn’t something to fear – but rather something to cherish while you are amongst it. It may hurt initially, but know that pain is temporary, and you have some epic adventures coming your way. Much love, S xo
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AuthorI'm Steph - a Health Sciences graduate, qualified Personal Trainer and Health Blogger. Here you will not find any quick fix, or diet tips. I'm here to share my love of life, fitness, mindset, and the lessons I learn as a journey through life. Archives
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